2 weeks agoLatest NewsComments Off on I’m married but I’ve fallen in love with a trans woman
DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I don’t want to break up my family, I’ve fallen in love with a trans woman.
We’ve been having an affair for six months. I know I need to make a decision about whether to leave my wife for her, but I keep changing my mind.
I’m 45 and my wife is 43. We have two primary aged children.
My lover is 32.
Over the past few years I’ve been very dissatisfied with my marriage. The spark has gone, especially in the bedroom.
Last year, I started going on dating sites, at first just to look. I didn’t intend to have an affair, let alone fall in love with anyone.
But after a while I started messaging a couple of women. One of them looked like a model – out of my league – and I thought she’d never be interested in me.
But she made me feel ‘seen’ and understood, in a way my wife doesn’t.
After we’d talked for a few weeks, she admitted she was trans. She thought that would scare me off, but it didn’t.
I told her I’m open-minded and didn’t care. We then agreed to meet.
The first time, we didn’t even have sex, we just talked for hours.
Since then, we’ve enjoyed a full sexual relationship, and I see her whenever I can.
I hate sneaking around and lying to my wife. I know my kids will be devastated and won’t understand.
2 weeks agoLatest NewsComments Off on EastEnders boss hits back at fan theory that ’lost’ storyline was axed as it ‘wasn’t good enough’
EASTENDERS boss hits back at fan theory that ’lost’ storyline was axed as it ‘wasn’t good enough’
Daran Little, 58, is still to this day the only writer to have penned over 100 episodes for both Coronation Street and the hit BBC One serial drama.
A huge red bus crashed through Bridge Street eight years ago, leaving the market in ruins[/caption]
However, he defended his work when one fan posted a clip of an episode of EastEnders on social media that aired eight years ago.
It featured a dramatic stunt when a bus driver had a heart attack and the red transport vehicle crashed through the Bridge Street Market, leaving it in ruins.
However, the fan claimed the BBC decided not to air the proper aftermath of the incident, despite its obvious danger.
“The original eps focused on Shirley discovering Buster&Kathy, but the BBC deemed them not good enough to air, so they were scrapped for a stunt.”
The user added: “No one died, and there was no follow-up since it was all last minute.”
However, the soap writer took to the platform as he hit out at the social media account in response.
Reposting the tweet, he claimed that he was the man behind the episodes and the storyline was never axed.
Instead, he revealed that it was never bosses intentions for Shirley to find out about the affair.
He fumed: “Wrong. I wrote these episodes and they didn’t replace Shirley finding out about Buster and Kathy.
“That discovery was never storylined. Nothing was deemed not good enough.”
EastEnders' 40th anniversary cameos so far
With the 40th anniversary of EastEnders coming up, fans are looking forward to some more incredible cameos from iconic faces of Walford's past. But who have we had so far?
Tracy-Ann Oberman – Oberman returned as Chrissie Watts, a character she last played nearly two decades ago.
Paul Bradley – Bradley returned as Nigel Bates, a character he last played over 25 years ago.
Micheal French – French returned as David Wicks, a character he last played two decades ago.
Patsy Palmer – Palmer returned as Bianca Jackson, a character she last played in 2019.
Coming up this year…
Ross Kemp – Kemp will reprise his role as Grant Mitchell, a character he first played in 1990. The BBC has described Kemp’s storyline as “explosive”. Kemp said it was an “absolute honour” to return to the show.
Other aspects of the 40th anniversary celebration include: A wedding between fan favorites, A huge explosion at the Queen Vic, and A live interactive episode.
Martin Fowler made a swift recovery despite the dangerous incident[/caption]
The soap fan claimed there was not a significant aftermath with the critical incident[/caption]
EastEnders continues on BBC One and is available to stream on iPlayer.
2 weeks agoLatest NewsComments Off on Future of iconic homeware chain with 59 shops thrown into doubt after Budget tax raid fallout
THE future of an iconic homeware chain has been thrown into doubt following the fallout of Rachel Reeves’ Budget tax raid.
The retailer, which has 59 shops across all corners of the UK, is scouting out potential buyers.
Lakeland is looking for potential buyers[/caption]
Lakeland, which sells cooking and cleaning products as well as other home appliances, employs around 1,000 people.
The family-run business was launched 61 years ago and is now spearheaded by the three sons of founder Alan Rayner.
Now, the brothers have selected advisory company Teneo to help them navigate a potential sale, city sources told Sky.
Lakeland’s main lender, HSBC, is reportedly being advised by accountancy firm PricewaterhouseCoopers.
The company is headquartered in Windermere, Cumbria but has stores across England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland.
It follows Reeves’ first Budget in October, which was dubbed “the most damaging for independent retailers in recent memory” by the British Independent Retailers Association.
The Chancellor controversially announced tax rises amounting £40billion – including raising the rate of employer National Insurance contributions.
This, alongside increasing minimum wage, has hiked costs for retailers and led some to raise their prices to absorb the increase.
Figures this month showed bosses had wasted no time in pulling permanent recruitment adverts, with December seeing the steepest drop in job vacancies in well over four years.
Some have been making redundancies in December, according to its survey of 400 recruiters.
As well as homeware businesses, supermarkets have also been hit – with fruit and veg prices at risk of soaring.
Two supermarkets,Sainsbury’sandTesco, have even been forced to issue statements acknowledging the predicted hike.
Sainsbury’s CEO Simon Roberts told The Grocer that the chain would need to work with its suppliers to minimise the impact on customers.
He said: “Suppliers have got costs coming at them as well, of course, given all of the changes in National Insurance coming.
“We’ll be working really closely to make sure that between us, we find the best answers we can and we continue to give customers the best value that we possibly can.”
It is not the first supermarket to acknowledge the difficult times ahead – with Tesco boss Ken Murphy also promising to protect customers against the looming economic challenges, a sentiment also echoed by M&S CEO Stuart Machin.
Meanwhile, Primark has blasted the Government for stifling business growth following the Budget.
The fashion retailer has suffered a six per cent slump in like-for-like UK and Ireland sales — its first drop since shops shut during thepandemic.
Eoin Tonge, finance chief of owner Associated British Food, told The Sun: “There is a weakness in consumer confidence that we don’t see in other markets.”
Communities all over the UK have seen highstreet businesses close, with WH Smith this week confirming its eighteenth planned store closure.
Lakeland sells cooking, baking and cleaning products[/caption]
2 weeks agoLatest NewsComments Off on Love Island star Elma Pazar’s secret sign to communicate with Towie friends on All Stars revealed
LOVE Island star Elma Pazar promised to make a secret sign to communicate with her Towie co-stars while in the All Stars villa.
The 31-year-old’s friends have all returned to work filming on the new series while Elma is in South Africa.
Elma, 31, is looking for real love on the ITV2 show[/caption]
Harry Derbidge and the rest of the Towie stars are all supporting Elma from Essex[/caption]
Having had her phone taken away in lockdown before the series launch, Elma has been out of contact for almost a month.
Her close pal Harry Derbidge told The Sun: “We did say to her before she left for South Africa, if she could just do like a little peace sign now and then.
“I’ve been looking out for her doing it but it just depends if it makes the edit.
“It would be nice to see she’s thinking of us.”
Elma is being supported by Harry and all her Towie co-stars back home where they’ve begun filming the new series.
She first appeared on Love Island‘s fifth series in 2019 – saying herself she’s best known for walking in with Maura Higgins.
However she lasted just six days in the villa.
Elma went on to become a leading cast member in The Only Way Is Essex on ITVBe – and had a brief on/off romance with Diags.
Harry – who is warning Elma against her love interest Ronnie Vint – told us: “When Elma was first on Love Island she didn’t get to be in there that long, so it’s really nice that people are seeing her for who is and the public are really warming to her.
“She’s just so funny with her one-liners. She’s the exact same in real life, she’s totally being herself.”
Harry added: “Elma’s one of my really, really close friends and someone who I speak to near enough every single day, so not being able to speak to her now for nearly two weeks has been so hard.
“I’m watching every night just so I can hear her voice because I miss her so much. I just want to give her a big cuddle.
“But as much as I’m selfishly missing her, I want her to be in there until the end. We’re all rooting for her.
“She’s getting so much love and positivity. I’m so, so proud of her.”
2 weeks agoLatest NewsComments Off on Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress review: impressively priced, considerably sized and serenely comfortable
ORIGIN, founded in 2018, is a mattress brand spanning eight countries, with a stated mission to “improve sleep worldwide by cutting out the gimmicks”.
It’s a bold objective, so I’ve tested out its flagship product in my Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress review.
Origin has a clear quality-over-quantity ethos.
Instead of offering what can sometimes be an overwhelming amount of choice, it currently has only two mattresses, one pillow, a topper and a bed available on its website.
Its multi-award winning, best selling and “new and improved” Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress aims to give consumers all the luxury and comfort of premium competitors but at a fraction of the price.
With eight comfort layers, enhanced pressure relief and a bamboo-infused wool, Origin isn’t shy when shouting about the Hybro Pro’s illustrious status as “the UK’s most award-winning luxury mattress”.
Origin is particularly proud of the value of its premium mattress.
Its website offers a handy comparison table, claiming that the newest version of the Hybrid Pro not only matches but beats its closest competitors across the board at almost half the price.
On its website, Origin compares the Hybrid Pro to the Simba Hybrid Pro and now-discontinued Emma Elite[/caption]
Arrives rolled up so easy to transport/get through doors
200 night trial
15 year warranty
Good value for money
Cons
Very tall! You might want to invest in deep sheets, especially if using a topper.
Might not be firm enough for some
The lack of options could be an issue for those with specialist requirements
Rating: 4.5/5
Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress review: how I tested
I’ll be honest, before testing the Origin Hybrid Pro, my mattress game was weak at best.
Until recently I had been quite happy sleeping on whatever mattress came with the flat I was renting — as long as I had my trusty topper to hand.
At the time of writing this review, I’ve been resting my weary bones on the Hybrid Pro for a month, and I can confirm I will never be going back to the economy mattress lifestyle.
With the help of my Garmin 7s smartwatch, I’ve been able to accurately track my sleep score and the difference in the length, consistency and quality of my sleep has been startling.
Quick summary
I was impressed by the Hybrid Pro’s quality, comfort and value for money[/caption]
The Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress has impressed me with its quality, comfort, and fantastic value for money.
Origin’s philosophy of “quality over quantity” really comes through, and while its selection is small, it’s clearly well thought out.
The Hybrid Pro, with its medium-firm feel and soft, breathable pillow top, combines over 5,700 springs with cooling latex layers, creating a mattress that keeps me comfortable and well-supported through the night.
After a month of testing, I’ve noticed a big improvement in my sleep quality. My average sleep score has jumped from 60.5 to 74 out of 100.
After a month of testing, I’ve noticed a big improvement in my sleep quality. My average sleep score has jumped from 60.5 to 74 out of 100.
The delivery was quick and easy with the Hybrid Pro conveniently compressed in a box, making setup a breeze – no heavy lifting required!
Though its height might call for deep-fitted sheets, I found that its orthopedic-level support meant I didn’t miss my old mattress topper at all; this mattress feels both cushioned and substantial.
Price-wise, Origin’s Hybrid Pro beats competitors like the Simba Hybrid Pro by a large margin.
With discounts, the double size is currently £689 — incredible value for a high-quality mattress.
Overall, the Origin Hybrid Pro offers a premium sleep experience without the premium price tag, and I can confidently say it’s elevated my sleep game.
Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress review: full review
First impressions
I was prepared to struggle to get the mattress to my bedroom, but it came neatly packaged[/caption]
The last time I bought my own mattress was almost a decade ago during my second year of uni.
All I can really remember is it was an absolute nightmare trying to fit through the corridor and up the stairs, even with the help of three housemates.
Eight years later, expecting the same ordeal, I was prepared with screwdriver in hand, ready to remove door hinges and handles where necessary.
Imagine my surprise when I opened the door and instead of receiving the 135x190cm behemoth I was expecting, I was presented with a neat rectangular box, easily carried by a solo delivery driver.
After removing the cardboard, a very flat rolled up mattress revealed itself. (I’ll admit I was slightly worried at this point).
Following the instructions, I unrolled the mattress onto my bed frame, pierced the plastic wrapping and watched in wonder as the Origin Hybrid Pro expanded before my eyes into a full-sized double mattress.
Origin says the Hybrid Pro will take anywhere from 48 to 72 hours to fully expand, but it’s ready to sleep on after just a few minutes.
This is far quicker than the Simba Hybrid mattress which recommends customers wait at least 3 hours before tucking themselves in for bed.
Performance
The Origin Hybrid Pro is certainly one of the tallest mattresses I’ve ever come across.
It’s so thick, in fact, I wasn’t able to fit my standard double sheets on when using a mattress topper.
This could easily be fixed by buying some deep-fitted sheets, but for the purposes of this review I opted to forget the topper and use the Hybrid Pro alone.
Thankfully, I didn’t find myself missing my trusty topper at all as the Origin Hybrid Pro is more than comfortable enough by itself.
Origin describes the mattress as “medium firm” which suits me perfectly as I prefer something with a bit of support.
If you’re someone who likes to sink into their bed and needs something a bit softer, then fear-not.
The Hybrid Pro includes a plush pillow top which is made with “AirFill”, an ultra-breathable fabric that moulds to the shape of your body while keeping you cool using natural latex.
My first night’s sleep was as comfortable as any I’ve had. The mattress didn’t need any breaking in at all and I found myself falling asleep easily.
The mattress expands to a whopping 31cm thickness[/caption]
There was no bad back or stiff joints in the morning either; the 5,700+ TitaniumCoil springs did their job at giving me all the support of an orthopaedic mattress without making me feel like I was sleeping on a plank of wood.
I’m more than happy to announce that the easy, high-quality sleep only continued over the weeks since first unboxing the Hybrid Pro.
My average sleep score in the four weeks before this test was a measly 60.5 (out of 100) and four weeks later my average has shot up to 74!
How much is the Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress?
The Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress comes in five sizes, and each currently comes with huge discounts.
Single (90x190cm) – £961 £529
Small Double (120x190cm) – £1,143 £629
Double (135x190cm) – £1,252 £689
King (150x200cm) – £1,434 £789
Super King (180x200cm) – £1,525 £839
Origin’s Hybrid Pro is considerably cheaper than their competitors’ premium mattress options; the Emma Elite (double) costs twice as much at £1,389, and Simba’s Hybrid Pro is £460 more than Origin at £1,149.
Where to buy the Origin Hybrid Pro mattress
The Origin Hybrid Pro is currently available exclusively from Origin’s own website.
The website offers free next-day delivery to mainland UK, as well as a 200-night trial period.
Alternatives
It probably won’t come as a surprise that there’s a lot of choice when it comes to luxury hybrid mattresses.
In what has become a crowded market of premium mattresses, the Origin Hybrid Pro really does stand out.
Its high-quality and supportive structure, combined with a spongy top layer, delivers exceptional comfort, making it a superb choice for those seeking a bedtime upgrade without the hefty price tag of its competitors.
The cooling effect works wonders on warmer nights, and the easy unboxing and setup process makes for a hassle-free experience.
After three weeks of testing, my sleep quality has notably improved, with my average sleep score jumping from 60.5 to 74.
The mattress’s orthopedic-level support and plush pillow top ensure a restful night without the need for a topper.
Price-wise, the Hybrid Pro outdoes notable competitors like the Simba Hybrid Pro, offering fantastic value for money.
I highly recommend the Origin Hybrid Pro Mattress to anyone looking for a high-quality, affordable mattress that doesn’t compromise on comfort or support.
However, if you prefer a very firm/very soft mattress or have specialist requirements, Origin might not be the right brand for you as it does have a limited range of models.
Overall, the Origin Hybrid Pro provides a premium sleep experience at a very reasonable cost, making it a worthy investment for a better night’s sleep.
2 weeks agoLatest NewsComments Off on When my husband was unhappy about my pregnancy, you helped us through
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I discovered I was pregnant with my fifth child, my husband gave me an ultimatum: either have a termination, or he’d leave me.
I was so confused and upset. I loved him and didn’t want to lose him, but also wanted to keep the baby.
I’m 36 and he’s 38.
You told me that I shouldn’t let anyone pressure me into having an abortion.
If I did, I’d end up resenting my husband and it would haunt me forever, and destroy our marriage.
You sent me your Unplanned Pregnancy support pack and recommended that we have couples counselling together, so we could discuss this openly and honestly, with a professional’s support.
I’m so pleased to be able to tell you that my husband and I have been talking a lot, and he is now much more supportive and happy about the baby coming.
He admits he overreacted because he was shocked and scared, and worried about money, but we’ve worked out ways to manage.