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My day with Amir Khan had me floored, what I saw is a million miles from the flash, cocky character fans think he is

TO some Amir Khan is just another flash, multimillionaire boxer… but I saw the real side of him only minutes after we met.

Having raked in a whopping £60MILLION just from fighting, he’s been able to afford a life that few can even dream of.

Amir Khan standing in front of an orange and black sports car.
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Amir Khan knows how to spend his well-earned cash[/caption]
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He lives a life of luxury[/caption]
Amir Khan with his three children.
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But the father-of-three is a doting dad and family man[/caption]
Amir Khan, victorious boxer, showing off his championship belts.
Khan earned £60m from his world title winning career
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Khan’s been pictured behind the wheel of fast cars, welcomed cameras into homes as big as hotels and loves to wear expensive jewellery.

On his rise to becoming one of British boxing’s greats he would also trash-talk opponents.

With his beautiful, successful wife on his arm, it’s little wonder some boxing fans find it hard to relate to the cocky lad from Bolton.

So I was floored when I met him.

I spoke to the British legend in Dubai – where he now lives with his family – while he was supporting his protege Haider Khan – of no relation – in his MMA fight.

The last time I interviewed Khan was in Saudi Arabia last February – albeit briefly – about a potential comeback and the legacy he’s left.

A year on, and not much changed as I quizzed him on similar topics.

But this time I got to see the kind-hearted nature of Khan, who single-handedly revived Great Britain’s Olympic boxing hopes in 2004.

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Khan agreed to leave his VIP cageside seat to speak to me, while I sprinted from the press area to ensure I didn’t miss my one-to-one opportunity.

But as I tried to take Khan backstage to find a quieter place to talk – security stopped me in my tracks.

They failed to recognise who the former light-welterweight champion of the world was – refusing to let him backstage without a media pass.

I feared my interview chances would be KO’d there and then – but Khan showed his humanity and laughed off the snub.

The boxing great – one of the best and most recognisable to ever come out of our shores – was far too humble to tell the jobsworth security who he was.

If I wasn’t in such a rush to get interviewing Khan, I would’ve explained to the staffer that he was talking to the man that won Olympic silver aged just 17.

The legend who lifted world championships at 22 and retired with one of the best records of the modern era.

But, we were against the clock so luckily a member of staff with security clearance brought Khan through.

And just as I thought we could get the interview underway, a member of the Coca-Cola Arena – originally from Manchester – recognised Khan.

Amir Khan, 2004 Olympic silver medalist, holding his medal.
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Khan won Olympic silver aged just 17[/caption]
Amir Khan holding up a boxing glove with Frank Warren.
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He turned pro as a star already[/caption]
Amir Khan kissing the WBA Light-Welterweight Championship belt.
Khan became world champ at just 22
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And again, the down-to-earth 38-year-old was asking this super-fan all about her life, why she now lives in Dubai, why she left England.

Sensing my precious time with Khan was slipping away, I did finally manage to get our chat underway.

But still, I was left stunned with the lack of ego he had shown in just the short period we had rubbed shoulders.

Khan helped keep funding for Team GB alive after medalling in Athens before turning pro a year later as an already household name.

And before even winning his first world title in 2009, he was a pay-per-view star making huge amounts of money.

Khan then took his career to America and that’s when he really made the big bucks.

And outside of the ropes, Khan has made waves.

Amir Khan and Faryal Makhdoom in Times Square, New York.
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Khan married Faryal Makhdoom in 2013[/caption]
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The couple’s relationship has been under the spotlight[/caption]
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But they seem happier than ever[/caption]

He married Faryal Makhdoom in 2013 and their relationship has been under the spotlight ever since.

It’s something the couple at times courted, having taken part in three seasons of reality TV series Meet the Khans: Big in Bolton.

Khan has been accused of cheating on Faryal several times over the years – causing them to almost split.

But the boxer has hailed New York-born Faryal as “very forgiving” after admitting to doing “silly things” in his past.

The couple now appear happier than ever and share three children, Lamaisah, ten, Alayna, six and Muhammad Zaviyar, four.

They are also living in Dubai after leaving the UK in the wake of Khan’s horrifying gunpoint robbery.

Khan had a £72,000 watch snatched off him by a masked gunman on the streets of East London in April 2022.

Amir Khan standing between a white Porsche and an orange Lamborghini.
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Khan relocated to Dubai after leaving the UK[/caption]
Amir Khan and his wife Faryal Makhdoom at home in Dubai.
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Khan and Faryal pose in their Dubai home[/caption]
Boxer Amir Khan with his three children.
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Khan with his kids, L to R, Alayna, Zaviyar and Lamaisah[/caption]

A gun was pointed at Khan’s face – in front of terrified wife Faryal – before robbers demanded his diamond-encrusted Franck Muller Vanguard Chronograph watch.

Two men – Dante Campbell and Ahmed Bana – later pleaded guilty to conspiracy to rob and possession of an imitation firearm.

Bana was jailed for nine years and eight months – while Campbell was locked up for seven years and nine months.

The watch was also returned by police – but Khan was too fearful to remain living at home.

He told us: “Look, I can walk around wearing anything, doing anything.

“I can leave my car door open, it’s just so much safer here. I think the law is much more strict, I think people like us need that.”

Khan still enjoys the finer things in life, posing in supercars, showing off his collection of luxury watches and settling down in a huge mansion.

British boxer Amir Khan with Pakistani children at a water point in a flood relief camp.
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Khan runs his own humanitarian foundation[/caption]
Boxer Amir Khan helps with flood cleanup in Pakistan.
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He has helped construct schools and orphanages and providing disaster aid[/caption]
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Khan most recently helped victims of the Gaza attacks[/caption]

He also gives back.

Khan runs his own humanitarian foundation, helping construct schools and orphanages in Africa and providing disaster relief in Pakistan, Nepal, and England.

More recently, Khan has been helping victims of the Gaza attacks, providing food and supplies to those affected.

He also helps mentor young fighters, like Adam Azim and Tal Singh, which keeps him in the sport.

But Khan is no longer a fighter – as of now anyway – having retired in 2022 after finally facing nemesis Kell Brook.

It was a rivalry born from their amateur days and spanning nearly two decades by the time they shared the ring – admittedly past their primes.

Khan was stopped in six rounds and hung up his gloves afterwards – doing so with no regrets and a new pal in Brook.

Amir Khan boxing Kell Brook.
This is the moment Kell Brook ended Khan’s career
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Amir Khan and Kell Brook facing each other before a boxing match.
The grudge match had been brewing for nearly 20 years
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Amir Khan looking dejected after a boxing match.
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Khan retired with no regrets[/caption]

He said: “I had to do it for the UK fans, the British fans.

“They wanted to see that fight and even though I knew I was done, I still had to give them that UK fight between me and Kell Book.

“I mean we’re friends now, we were never friends. Sometimes it takes punching each other in the face to become friends.”

Khan fought a who’s who across four different weights, from greats of the past and present.

But it is only now in retirement that he gets the flowers he truly deserves.

He said: “When you retire, that’s when you realise you was a great champion for Great Britain.

“I put some great fights on television at home. I had great times, UK fans, I do love them and they were amazing.”

Amir Khan giving a thumbs up at the Ring Awards.
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The boxing legend is still the star of the show wherever he goes[/caption]
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Khan starred on I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here!
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Amir Khan and Faryal Khan in a promotional photo.
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Khan and Faryal had their own BBC reality show[/caption]

You’d think with his multiple charities, looking after the next crop of fighters and being such a family man, Khan would stay happily retired.

But his name continues to be called out, by the new-wave of celebrities-turned-boxers like KSI.

And he grinned: “Look we’re prize fighters, we talk numbers.  

“If the numbers match then yeah, it’s a fight, but if not, then if it’s all just hype and talk, it’s not gonna work.  

“But look,yeah there was talks about it and they asked me a question, if I’ll be up for it.

“Yeah, I mean, I’m a fighter. Every fighter is up for a fight so yeah, let’s see.”

Khan – who has boxed since the age of 11 – has achieved everything there is to in boxing.

But while returning for just one more bout against prankster-turned-prizefighter would earn him another handsome payday – it also comes at the risk of ruining his reputation.

And as I found out first-hand, that reputation is of a legend inside and outside of the ring, who I will always thank for letting me meet up close and personal.

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Khan was all smiles talking to SunSport

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Champions League LIVE SCORES: Girona vs Arsenal updates plus latest from Man City vs Club Brugge and PSV vs Liverpool

THE Champions League league phase will conclude TONIGHT – with fans treated to a bumper round of action.

All 36 clubs will be in action this evening as the race for a spot in the last-16 heats up.

Arsenal just require a point against Girona to guarantee a top-eight finish and automatically progress to the next stage.

Aston Villa are in a dogfight for an automatic spot, with victory over Celtic needed to give them the best chance of avoiding the knockout play-offs.

Manchester City are unable to finish in the top eight following last week’s collapse at PSG, but a win over Club Brugge would secure their place in the knockouts.

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Axed All Stars beauty reveals which Love Island star will hook up with bombshell Sammy Root as she sends warning

LOVE Island’s Olivia Hawkins has revealed there’s only one girl for new bombshell Sammy Root ahead of his All Stars entrance.

Sammy, 23, has a past with Elma Pazar, 32, after they met on the Towie circuit, so his arrival could not come at a better time for her after Ronnie Vint ditched her for Harriett Blackmore.

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Olivia Hawkins has revealed which girl with catch Sammy Root’s eye
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Sammy Root, Love Island All Stars contestant.
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Bombshell Sammy hinted at rekindling a romance with his former flame Elma[/caption]
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Olivia said Elma’s ‘manifesting has come true’
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Now, axed star Olivia, 29, said Elma would be the perfect match for former flame Sammy.

On the Love Island official Instagram page, Olivia commented on Sammy’s photo, writing: “Elma our manifesting came true.”

Olivia also warned if Elma doesn’t make a beeline for Sammy, then she’ll be heading back to the villa, writing: “Elma go get him or I’m coming back in.”

Sammy has made it clear that rekindling a romance with Elma could be on the cards.

Before entering the villa, Sammy was asked how he felt about seeing some familiar faces.

He replied: “For the people I have met before, I’m excited to see them again, but who knows – it could be fun or it might be awkward.”

Sammy, who split from Jess Harding just three months after they won the 2023 series, revealed what he is now looking for.

He said: “Previously I put a lot on looks whereas now I think it’s more important to focus on personality.

“I just want someone that’s outgoing, adventurous, happy and just a jolly person that I can have fun with.”

Speaking about his biggest red flags, Sammy said: “I’m not a fan of uptight people, I want someone who doesn’t care about what others think and just wants to have fun.”

Sammy’s been in holding in Cape Town for a while, but ITV2 bosses have put him in the villa at just the right time for him to rekindle early flames with Elma.

A source said: “Elma has said the attraction with Sammy was nothing more than flirtation as she’s conscious they have an age gap of nearly 10 years, but Love Island execs hope under the South African sun, love could bloom.

“Sammy is pals with a few of the lads too including Casey and Ron so will slot right in.

“He’s All Stars’ second winner too, joining Ekin in that accolade.”

Sammy won series 10 of the ITV2 dating show alongside then-girlfriend Jess.

However, the pair’s romance didn’t last, and they ended up splitting just three months after leaving the villa.

Jess told Sammy their relationship was over by phone – before news of their split leaked online while she was partying in Ibiza.

Sammy and Elma were rumoured to be dating in 2023, shortly before it was announced he was joining the cast of Towie.

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How can I repair my marriage when my wife wants to hook up with other men?

DEAR DEIDRE: HOW can I repair my marriage when my wife wants to hook up with other men?

All I want is to be intimate with her again, but she says she’d rather have sex with strangers. 

I’m 44 and she’s 42. We’ve been married for 15 years and have a teenage son, who has a learning disability. 

Life has been very stressful, because he needs so much extra attention.

It’s had a bad effect on our marriage. Our sex life has been the main casualty.

We haven’t been intimate in years. She’s lost interest in me and always says she’s not in the mood. 

Recently, she’s been more distant than usual, and going out a lot in the evenings with her ‘friends’, leaving me to care for our son.

A few weeks ago, I confronted her, saying we needed to talk about the future of our marriage. I wanted to try to sort things out.

Instead, she told me she’d signed up to a website for casual hook-ups and has met up with a few different men. 

I was blindsided. She claimed she needed an escape, and sex with random men made her feel attractive again.

When I asked if she wanted a divorce, she said no. What she wants is to carry on with our marriage as ‘normal’ for our son’s sake, but to start dating other men too.

In other words, she wants me to agree to an open relationship. 

For her it’s the best of both worlds – stability at home, and sexual thrills with strangers. 

For me, it’s a horrifying prospect. I said I couldn’t do it, and only wanted her.

She responded by accusing me of trying to control her. 

I feel humiliated, angry and bereft. What should I do?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your wife is behaving selfishly.

You’ve made it clear you don’t want an open relationship, and her response is to gaslight you.

This is emotionally abusive. 

It is not good for your son either, who must sense the tension between you. 

My support pack, When Parents Fall Out, explains more about the impact of parental arguments on children.

Ask if she’ll consider couples counselling. Contact Tavistock Relationships (tavistockrelationships.org).

It would help you to talk to a counsellor alone too. See my Counselling support pack for more.

If she refuses to work on your marriage, I’m sorry, but you may need to consider whether it would be best for your family if you did break up.

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Mega-rich donors flock to Nigel Farage’s glitzy Reform fundraiser after forking out up to £25,000 on tickets

MEGA rich donors flocked to Mayfair last night to line the Reform Party coffers with more than £1MILLION.

Nigel Farage added the seven-figure sum to his campaign war-chest as wealthy backers paid up to £25,000-a-head for the swanky bash at Oswald’s private members club. 

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Nigel Farage at the glitzy event in Mayfair last night
Holly Valance arriving at a Reform Party dinner in London.
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Holly Valance arrives at Oswald’s[/caption]
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Heavyweight boxer Derek Chisora was among the guests
Lady Victoria Hervey arriving at a Reform Party dinner in London.
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Lady Victoria Hervey arrives at Oswald’s private members club[/caption]

Guests ranged from celebs like heavyweight boxer Derek Chisora and SAS hardman Ant Middleton, to the racehorse trainer Andrew Reid and businessman Myles Barclay.

The party’s new treasurer Nick Candy – tasked with pulling in the rich supporters – was present with his actress wife Holly Valance.

He gave a speech to the 100 attendees, along with party chairman Zia Yusuf and then the keynote address by Mr Farage.

They quaffed champagne, tucked into what one guest said was “the best roast beef I’ve had in my life” before Mr Farage led the room in a chorus of God Save The King.

Forms were left on tables for donors to pledge more money the the party.

The mega fundraiser will send chills down the spines of Tory bosses who emptied their coffers fighting the summer election and are scrambling to draw in cash. 

Some polls have put Reform ahead of the Conservatives and nipping at the heels of Labour. 

Other guests last night included Charles James Spencer-Churchill, the 12th Duke of Marlborough. 

Reform backers George Cottrell and Aaron Banks were also among the suited-and-booted, along with socialite Lady Victoria Hervey.

Party MPs Richard Tice, Lee Anderson and James McMurdock were also at the sought-after event, alongside Tory turncoat Dame Andrea Jenkyns.

Voters are also are flocking to Nigel Farage’s Reform because of its hardline stance on immigration, a new poll reveals.

The party is now polling at 24 per cent, with a third of Tory voters ready to jump ship at the next election.

Immigration is at the heart of its appeal, with 18 per cent of supporters saying Reform’s hardline policies are their main reason for backing the party.

Frustration with the main parties is another key factor, as 19 per cent of voters say they support Reform because it’s seen as different from Labour and the Tories.

The poll, conducted by YouGov, found older voters are driving the surge, with 36 per cent of over-65s and 28 per cent of those aged 50-64 open to voting for Farage.

Brexiteers are also turning their backs on the Tories, with 46 per cent saying they’d back Reform compared to 40 per cent sticking with the Conservatives.

Nick Candy arriving at a Reform Party dinner in London.
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Nick Candy arrives at Oswald’s private members club[/caption]
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Backers attended the Reform bash in London
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The Reform Party fundraiser at Oswald’s

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How do I support my terminally ill daughter when she’s pushing everyone away?

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E5948B Female depressed patient sitting on the bed in a hospital ward

DEAR DEIDRE: THE news that my daughter is dying of cancer has broken my heart.

I want to be there to support her but she’s pushing everyone away.

I’m 60 and my daughter is 35. She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer five years ago.

At first, we thought the surgery and chemotherapy had been successful. But a few months ago, tests showed her treatments weren’t working and it had spread to her lungs, liver and brain.

She’s been told there’s nothing more they can offer her apart from palliative care.

I am devastated but trying not to show her, as I don’t want to upset her more. 

She’s been very brave up until now, but she has withdrawn and says she doesn’t want to see anyone – even close friends and family.

The treatments have been hard on her physically, and she’s lost all her confidence. 

To me, she is still my beautiful daughter. I don’t care if she’s put on weight, or if her hair hasn’t grown back.

I just want to hug her and look after her. But I also don’t want to go against her wishes.
I’ve bought her some gifts –  a cuddly toy and her favourite film, Notting Hill, on DVD, and would like to take them to her for comfort.

She lives 75 miles away, so I can’t just pop in.

Should I just send them by post instead?

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DEIDRE SAYS: This is a terribly sad situation. Facing the prospect of the loss of your child must be unbearable, and of course you want to support her.

But if she has asked not to be disturbed, it’s best to respect her wishes. She’s probably still reeling from the prognosis. 

Send the gifts with a note, saying you love her and are there for her whenever she’s ready. I’m sure she will ask for you soon.

In the meantime, you need help too. See my support pack on  and contact Macmillan Cancer Support (macmillan.org.uk).

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Love Island couple on the rocks AGAIN as they clash before stunning bombshell arrives

THE Love Island All Stars gang are heading for a bumpy ride with the arrival of two new bombshells.

But cracks have already appeared for one couple AGAIN.

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Ekin-Su and Curtis have come to blows again in the villa[/caption]
Ekin-Su from Love Island All Stars reacting to a text message.
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Their dispute was interrupted by a shock text[/caption]
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The couple quickly learn the news of the two new bombshells[/caption]

Ekin-Su Cülcüloğlu and Curtis Pritchard have come to blows even before Sammy Root and Danielle Sellers make their comeback during a debate on a day bed.

In a first look video at tonight’s episode of the ITV2 reality show, Ekin can be seen complaining to Curtis for talking over her.

She tells him: “Every time I want to say something about how I feel, you have something to say which then… the conversation I want to say gets taken somewhere else.”

Curtis replies: “That’s rubbish. You say how you feel all the time. I can probably count 15 times in the past three days.”

Ekin tells him: “No correct. But if there’s something in particular I want to say…”

The pair are then suddenly interrupted by the noise of a text.

Ekin jumps, sits up straight and puts her hands over her mouth, repeatedly saying, “Oh no, oh no”.

The sneak peek video then cuts to newcomers Sammy and Danielle strolling into the villa.

Fans have been quick to share their thoughts on Ekin’s gripe with Curtis, with some accusing her of ‘backing off’ following Tuesday night’s public vote.

Viewers had been asked to pick their favourite islanders and Luca Bish was revealed as the most popular boy, with Elma Pazar voted as the most popular girl.

Commenting on the official Love Island Instagram page, one fan said: “Was Ekin wanting Curtis to be the favourite boy? She now seems to be shaking the pot.”

Another added: “Ekin finding a problem with Curtis now he wasn’t the favourite boy.”

And a third agreed: “Basically Ekin is ready to ditch Curtis as he wasn’t a favourite….”

Sammy, who won the 2023 series with his ex Jess Harding, and 2017 alumni Danielle will be seen making their big Love Island All Stars entrance on Wednesday evening in a shock twist.

In a show first, the pair will head straight to the Hideaway Retreat before each picking an islander to join them in there for the entire night.

Former Page 3 girl Danielle has admitted she has her eye on both Curtis and Scott Thomas, meaning she’s likely to ruffle either Ekin-Su or Tina Stinnes’ feathers.

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Ahead of her villa return, Danielle said: “I like Scott, Luca and Curtis so I’ll be pulling them for chats.”

Admitting things could get a little bit frosty between herself and fiery actress Ekin, she added “I already know Gabby and Elma and it’s going to be nice to meet Ekin-Su, though I’m not sure how she’ll react when I chat to Curtis?!”

Danielle has a history of stirring up trouble as a bombshell.

She is best remembered for trying to steal Chris Hughes away from Olivia Attwood in Casa Amor during series three.

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Sammy Root and Danielle Sellers arriving on Love Island: All Stars.
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Bombshells Sammy Root and Danielle Sellers will arrive in the villa tonight[/caption]
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The pair will head straight to the Hideaway Retreat before picking two islanders to join them[/caption]
Ekin-Su and Curtis from Love Island: All Stars reacting.
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Fans fear former Page 3 girl Danielle could pick Curtis to join her for the night[/caption]

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When I proposed to my wife, I didn’t expect to be married to her parents too

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DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I proposed to my new wife, I didn’t expect to end up married to her parents too. 

But nine months into our marriage, it feels like there are four people in our relationship – me, her and her mum and dad. 

I’m 30 and my wife is 28.

I knew she was close to her parents when we got together. But they have far too much control over our lives.

She insists on spending every weekend with them and speaks to them on the phone every evening, sometimes several times. 

They pop round unannounced – which she doesn’t seem to mind. 

She also takes their advice on everything from where we go on holiday to what curtains we should get.

I’m so fed up with it that it’s causing arguments, and negatively affecting our marriage.

Yet when I try to talk to her about it, she can’t see the problem. 

I love her but I don’t want to live in her parents’ shadows for the rest of my life. What can I do?

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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s important to iron out this problem now, because one thing is certain, if you have children, it will become more challenging. 

Sit down calmly with your wife and explain to her that while you like her parents, you’re now a team of two.

Suggest that you need to establish boundaries with her parents. For example, that you see them every other weekend, and they don’t come round unless it’s pre-arranged. 

For more advice, contact Family Lives (familylives.org.uk).

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